news blog

This NELFA news blog contains current information concerning rainbow families, important LGBTIQ* news in general and it summarises recent activities of NELFA Board members or member organisations. You find older entries in our newsletters.

BRUSSELS, 15 October 2019: NELFA Vice President Björn Sieverding (LSVD) took part in a panel discussion about parental leave for LGBTIQ* families and the experiences of (gay) fathers in child care arrangements at the EIGE Gender Equality Index 2019 conference. The new Index reveals that rainbow families still don’t have access to parental leave in eleven countries within the European Union. (photo: COFACE Families Europe via Twitter)

PARIS, 15 October 2019: The National Assembly in France voted with a vast majority for the whole legislative package on “bioethics” – means: to open medically assisted procreation (French: PMA) for single women and lesbian couples (including a co-parent recognition by declaration of consent). Next step: The discussion in the Senate from January 2020… A final vote of the Parliament is to be expected in May 2020. Read more (in French). (photo: Julien Muguet pour “Le Monde”)

DUBLIN, 14 October 2019: The non-recognition of familial ties in cross-border situations leads into legal limbo situations for rainbow families. Sometimes, children even remain stateless. Currently, NELFA supports and accompanies an Irish-Polish lesbian couple with their 15-months-old baby Sofia. The Irish Times just reported on the case (see here the article), NELFA prepares material for a further media campaigns and the family concerned just started a comprehensive “baby sofia blog” of their legal fight. (photo: Kashka Sankowska)

AVELLINO, 11 October 2019: NELFA Board member Giuseppina La Delfa (Famiglie Arcobaleno) presented her rainbow family story and (long-term) struggles to be finally recognised at an event with the title “La famiglia reinventata. Nuove sfide, nouvi nuclei”. Read here an article. (photo: Giuseppina La Delfa)

BRUSSELS, 11 October 2019: NELFA just launched its pilot project RAF.TEENS (acronym for “Rainbow Families for Teens”). The aim is to create a forum for LGBTIQ* parents and their adolescent children in order to organise cross-border exchanges. Board member Giuseppina La Delfa shares her own experiences: In summer 2019, her daugther (16) spent two weeks with Gabriel (17) – the son of NELFA Board member Jesús Santos Homobono) in Italy and Spain. Read more. (graphic: NELFA)

PARIS, 4 October 2019: The Court of Cassation finally decided that the filiation between intended parents and their children born through surrogacy (in the case concerned: California) has to be recognised. The French Mennesson family (see picture) fought 19 years for this judgment. Read more (in French). Another article discusses further consequences. (photo: Christoph Archambault/AFP)

HELSINKI, 3-4 October 2019: NELFA took part in the conference “Shaping a healthy environment fit for children“, organised by COFACE Families Europe. NELFA was present with a networking hot-spot, grateful for inspiring discussions. Former Board member Juha Jämsä (Sateenkaariperheet ry, Finland) issued NELFA leaflets, an updated presentation and some national findings about rainbow families. (photo: Juha Jämsä)

COPENHAGEN, 1 October 2019: History was made 30 years ago, when Denmark became the first country in the world to allow same-sex couples to tie the knot. It was a Sunday and Copenhagen’s deputy mayor Tom Ahlberg opened the gates of the city hall to officiate the “partnerships” of 11 same-sex couples. Read an article here and another story here. (in the picture: Axel Axgil (right) and Eigil Axgil (left) were the first couple; photo taken by Keld Navntoft/AFP/Getty)

BERLIN, 29 September 2019: The Federal Ministry for Justice in Germany just started a new campaign to promote the rule of law – i.e. with a gay married couple: “We are love that remains. And a State that still learns.” On 1st October 2019, Germany celebrated the 2nd anniversary of marriage equality. But, there is still something to do: i.e. the co-parent recognition of LGBTIQ* parents from birth (to avoid stepchild adoption procedures). Read more here. (photo: Ministry of Justice)

PARIS, 27 September 2019: Applause in France! The National Assembly voted (with a vast majority) in favour of a law that will open medically assisted insemination for single women and lesbian couples. Unfortunately, the ratification process will take some time. The final vote for the whole bioethic package is to be expected in May 2020. Read more here and another article with input of NELFA’s Board member Dominique Boren (apgl, France). (photo: Lionel Bonaventure/AFP)

ST. PETERSBURG, 26 September 2019: NELFA’s member organisation Coming Out Russia confirmed that a persecuted rainbow family from Moscow succeeded to move to the United States. The gay couple was officially accused of murder. In reality, they just raise two boys who were adopted eight, nine years ago by one of the partners. In summer, a doctor of a clinic informed the authorities about the family. Read more (in Russian). (photo: Andrei Waganowa and Evgeny Erofeeva)

BRUSSELS, 23-24 September 2019: A range of NELFA (Board) members took part in the LGBTI Equality Conference in Brussels, organised by the Finnish Presidency of the Council of the EU and the Commission. Vice President Björn Sieverding was invited to hold a keynote speech at a workshop concerning LGBTIQ* people and their families in cross-boarder situations. The main aim was to feed the Commission with suggestions for the upcoming legislature. Read our press release – including the speech, a “wishlist” for the EU institutions and a new cross-border presentation. (photo: Denitza Ljubenova)

BRUSSELS, 22 September 2019: NELFA Board members from France, Italy, Germany, Poland, Croatia, Spain and Bulgaria came together to discuss several upcoming tasks. The meeting in the Rainbow House (Salle Lollepot) had begun with a cosy exchange. Guests were Paula Fagan, CEO at LGBT Ireland (NELFA’s new member organisation) and Rémy Bonny, researcher and expert of LGBT+ Politics in Post-Soviet Republics & Central Eastern Europe. (photo: Giovanni Fantoni)

SALAMANCA, 20-22 September 2019: The Spanish LGBTIQ* umbrella organisation FELGTB celebrated the 9th edition of “Jornadas de Familias LGBTI“. The motto was: “Ni un paso atrás diversidad” (No regression in diversity). The days in the northwest of the country were i.e. accompagnied by NELFA Board members Jesús Santos Homobono (Galehi) and Marcos Jornet (Son Nuestros Hijos). (photo: Área de las familias Felgtb)

BRUSSELS, 20-22 September 2019: Several national rainbow families organisations like apgl (France), Homoparentalités (Belgium), Meer Dan Gewenst (The Netherlands) and also NELFA took part in the Men Having Babies (MHB) Conference 2019. The event informed more than 320 prospective gay fathers from 20 European countries about parenting options through surrogacy. MHB marked the launch of an “Advocacy & Research Forum”, i.e. with expertise of LGBTIQ* Family lawyers and other legal experts. Find here a nice video of the Conference. (photo: Catherine Clavin)

TALLINN, 17 September 2019: In Estonia, the married person who is a stay-home parent and raising a child generally has the health insurance covered by state but the state refused to give the health insurance to Jelena, a member of a family of same-sex partners and their son in June. The couple turned to court and won: Tallinn’s Administrative Court found that the registered same-sex partners and parents should be treated equally. Read more. (photo: Estonian Human Rights Centre)

DUBLIN, 17 September 2019: The rainbow family community in Europe is growing: LGBT Ireland just became full member of NELFA. It is a national charitable organisation providing support, training and advocacy services, to enhance the visibility, rights and inclusion of LGBT+ people and their families living in Ireland. The frontline services include the National LGBT Helpline & Online Chat Support service, the Gender Identity Family Support Line, a dedicated website and a number of specialist peer support groups. LGBT Ireland and NELFA already worked together to raise cross-border issues for LGBTIQ* familie with Irish legal and policy representatives. Read more here. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

BRUSSELS, 10 September 2019: NELFA is very pleased with the decision to nominate Helena Dalli as new EU Commissioner for the equality portfolio. The politician from Malta was an important supporter for the recognition of rainbow family rights in her country – from civil unions to marriage equality. Since years, Malta ranks at the top position in ILGA-Europe’s Rainbow Map. Read an article and a recent interview with a Lithuanian LGBTIQ* organisation. Concerning the nomination, COFACE Families Europe issued a press release. (photo: Malta Independent)

SOFIA, 10 September 2019: NELFA takes part in a new REC project, funded by the EU Commission, entitled “Rainbow Shield”. The aim is to support LGBTIQ* people and their families in Bulgaria with a legal toolkit. Today, there was a kick-off meeting with participants from all organisations involved: The leading group is Deystvie, partners are Bilitis (Rainbow Hub), Foundation GLAS, Asociatia Accept in Romania and NELFA. More information here (photo: Daniel Martinovic)

SARAJEVO, 8 September 2019: NELFA Board member Daniel Martinovic took part in the very first Pride Parade in Bosnia & Herzegovina. Together with several members of the Croatian rainbow families organisation Dugine obitelji, he experienced a peaceful event without violent attacks of counter-demonstrators. See some pictures of the Pride with thousands of participants. (photo: Daniel Martinovic)

BERN, 8 September 2019: A regional court in Switzerland has backed the rights of rainbow families. For the first time there is a ruling that states: Legally not recognised co-mothers have parental obligations – even after a separation. Read a corresponding article here (in German). The decision is a positive sign in a complicated debate. Recently, the legal committee of the Swiss National Council voted in favour of marriage equality, but without an access for lesbian couples to sperm donation and the possibility of an automatic co-parent recognition. Read more. (photo:

TOULOUSE, 6 September 2019: NELFA and its French member apgl took part in a conference on assisted reproductive techniques (ART) for single women and same-sex couples. Vice President Björn Sieverding contributed with a new general overview about the rights of rainbow families in Europe. Currently, there is a strong debate in France about an upcoming law that will open ART under certain conditions and probably also includes the recognition of families ties that were already established abroad. Read a recent article here. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

BRUSSELS, 28 August 2019: NELFA is official partner of the first YouthMundus Festival in Rome (14th to 17th of November 2019). It’s a global short content and music festival platform, with an emphasis on raising awareness about culturally relevant and pressing social courses to combat social injustice. NELFA will be represented (at least) by an Italian teenager with two lesbian moms who will talk about her experiences as part of a rainbow family. (graphic: NELFA, logo: YouthMundus)

POTSDAM, 21 August 2019: A regional court near Berlin (Potsdam-Rehbrücke) decided to put two gay men on a common birth certificate – still a rare case in Germany. The two children of the couple were born through surrogacy in the United States, and only the biological father was recognised. But the judge decided on the co-parent recognition to protect the existing family and to establish the necessary filiation between the children and both of their parents. Read more (in German). (photo: Guido Mewis)

VIENNA, 15 August 2019: Since January 2019, marriage equality is reality in Austria, but at the same time, civil partnerships are now open for heterosexual couples as well. And they use this option more often than expected: 560 of 638 registrations are “straight”. Read more in a newspaper article. (photo:

BRUSSELS, 9 August 2019: ILGA-Europe just submitted a third party intervention to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg, supported by NELFA. The comments for the case A.S. v. Poland are the same as for the similar case X. v. Poland. In both cases, mothers lost their custody rights because of their lesbian relationships. Read the comments here. (photo: Shutterstock)

WARSAW, 6 August 2019: NELFA currently contributes to several cases at the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg. Together with other organisations (led by the Helsinki Foundation for Human Rights) we intervene i.e. in a case concerning the confirmation of Polish citizenship for the children of a same-sex couple (born through surrogacy in the United States). Read the full press release. (photo:

BRUSSELS, 2 August 2019: NELFA just sent a letter to the European Commission concerning the situation of LGBTIQ* people in Poland. Together with ENP (European Network of Parents of LGBTI+ Persons) and the European Forum of LGBT Christian Groups, we demand a clear reaction concerning the recent developments in the country (anti-LGBTIQ*-resolutions, free-zone stickers, attacks at Pride in Białystok). Read the full letter and our press release (graphic: NELFA)

MOSCOW, 29 July 2019: For the first time, the “gay propaganda” law is used to justify the removal of adopted children from a rainbow family home. NELFA already reported on this case, but unfortunately its getting worse. We are in contact with our full member organisation Coming Out Russia in Saint Petersburg and will try to help. Read more. (photo: Coming Out Russia)

London, 25 July 2019: Professor Robert Wintemute (King’s College, London) has sent written comments to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg, also on behalf of NELFA. The case A.D.-K. and Others v. Poland is about the recognition of a British birth certificate (stating two mothers) in Poland. Read the written comments here. (photo: Poohz/Getty/iStockphoto)

PARIS, 25 July 2019: Finally, the French government has sent to Parliament its draft legislation concerning the access to medically assisted reproduction for single women and lesbian couples (including funding). It’s a very important step forward, but there are still major concerns. Read an article and a current statement of NELFA’s member apgl. On 30th of July, the organisation issued also a video. (photo: Reuters, Charles Platiau)

SOFIA, 24 July 2019: Great news from Bulgaria! A married French-Australian lesbian couple will be recognised in the country. Bulgaria must accept same-sex marriages that were contracted abroad (see the Coman case in Romania). The Migration Department had blocked the decision, but EU law is stronger (see our legal service page)! NELFA congratulates wholeheartedly! Read the press release of our Bulgarian member organisation Deystvie (in English). (photo: Deystvie)

BELGRADE, 19 July 2019: NELFA is very pleased with the courageous decision of a lesbian couple from Serbia. Jelena Dubovi and Suncica Kopunovic tried to register a civil partnership in Novi Sad, but authorities turned them away. So the couple launched a legal challenge to try to overturn the current law. Read more here. (photo: Mickey Mystique, Wikimedia Commons)

PARIS, 19 July 2019: The online platform “Konbini” just reported on a scary battle between a gay photographer and a homophobe politician. Agnès Cerighelli from Saint-Germain-en-Laye used stolen private pictures from Olivier Ciappa and rushed against him and his rainbow family via Twitter, i.e. with collages of sex- and family photos. Read more here. (photo: Olivier Ciappa)

MOSCOW, 18 July 2019: There are disturbing news from Russia. Obviously, a rainbow family (two dads with two children) had to flee because of threats and investigations. The authorities became aware that the couple had adopted their children in 2010. The responsible civil servants are now accused because of disregarding the homo-propaganda law. Read more (in English and German). (photo:, nb)

BELFAST, 09 July 2019: LGBTIQ* activits celebrate the recent decision of UK’s Westminister Parliament in London as “historic day”. MPs voted in favour of marriage equality in Northern Ireland (383 to 73) if the Stormont Assembly isn’t restored until October 2019. Read more here and an updated article here (22 July). (photo: Peter Morrisson, PA Wire)

BRUSSELS, 09 July 2019: NELFA just created a new legal support mailing list for rainbow families in Europe. Legal experts, activists and LGBTIQ* (family) lawyers are invited to join the group (via mail to: The aim is to have a certain task-force whenever rainbow families need legal advice, but we want also establish a platform to discuss court cases, possible interventions and strategic litigation. You find more information about NELFA’s legal service here. (graphic: NELFA)

BRUSSELS, 04-05 July 2019: NELFA took part at a very inspiring meeting of LGBTIQ* networks in Brussels – organised by ILGA-Europe. Major aim was to discuss the status quo and the development of these umbrella organisations. In the future, they want to strengthen their ties and – occasionally – take action together. These networks were also present: IGLYO, EL*C, ENP, OII, ICRSE, Europride and the European Forum of LGBT Christian groups. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

MADRID, 03 July 2019: Our member organisation Galehi took part in the Orgullo (Pride) event at Moncloa Palace. NELFA Board member Jesús Santos Homobono and Galehi-chair Marta Márquez had the possibility to talk with Prime Minister Pedro Sánchez about rainbow families! Some days later, on 6th of July, members of Galehi and Son Nuestros Hijos waved their flags at Madrid’s Pride Parade – NELFA logos were also visible. (photo: Jesús Santos Homobono)

BRUSSELS, 30 June 2019: NELFA just finalised its third Erasmus+ project in a row (time frame: 1st June 2018 – 30 June 2019). It was entitled “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families” and empowered NELFA’s educational activities (with 20 participants from all over Europe). You find a summary of the project here. Visit also our recently updated project webpage. (graphic: NELFA)

BARCELONA, 28-29 June 2019: “We are families everywhere” – this was the motto of Barcelona’s Pride for 2019 and NELFA’s member FLG organised a lot of events during the whole week – including a presentation of NELFA President Eleni Maravelia; a kid’s corner with music, games and story-telling; and the parade with many rainbow families (including NELFA Board members from Spain [Galehi and Son Nuestros Hijos] and Italy [Famiglie Arcobaleno]). (photo: Marcos Jornet)

VIENNA, 26 June 2019: Marriage equality is now really equal in Austria. The judiciary committee of the National Council decided to close the last gaps. Now, same-sex partners can get married, even one of the partners comes from a country without marriage equality. Read more here and another commentary here (both in German). (photo: Johannes Zinner)

TALLINN, 21 June 2019: The Supreme Court has strengthened the rights of same-sex couples to live as family in Estonia. Registered partners from abroad are entitled to get a residence permit. The Aliens Act is unconstitutional and must now be reviewed. In the case concerned, two foreign same-sex partners (from Sri Lanka and Ukraine) had ask for a permission to reside in Estonia, but their requests were initially rejected. Read more (in Estonian). (photo: Andriy Popov)

BRUSSELS, 20 June 2019: NELFA co-organised a research presentation with high-level stakeholders from the EU institutions and other (LGBTIQ*) families organisations. Tanja Vuckovic Juros (Université Catholique de Louvain, TransNorm project) and Salvatore d’Amore (Université Libre de Bruxelles) shared their new findings, in both cases the data were collected in different EU Member States. In a panel debate, the participants talked about best practices to increase the well-being of rainbow families besides the advancement of equal rights. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

RIGA, 20 June 2019: The Parliament failed to introduce a civil partnership law for same-sex couples. Only 23 delegates out of 101 voted YES, 60 voted NO and there was one abstention. The draft bill was introduced by liberal and liberal-concervative politicians in the government. In the debate, national-conversative delegates were vehemently against the new legislation and referred to the Latvian constitution. Read more (in German):

DUBLIN, 18 June 2019: NELFA and LGBT Ireland agreed on a close relationship to advance the rights of rainbow families! At a meeting, Paula Fagan (Chief Executive Officer, LGBT Ireland) and Björn Sieverding (NELFA Vice President) talked about upcoming common projects. In the evening, there was a panel discussion about co-parent regulations in Ireland. NELFA presented an actual overview about the current situation of rainbow families in Europe. Read a summary report of the event here. (photo: A&L Goodbody)

BUCHAREST, 18 June 2019: Rainbow families in Romania still face a lot of discriminiation, but seven same-sex couples now decided to file a suit against their home country before the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg. Help comes from NELFA’s supporting member Asociatia Accept. Two of the claimants were participants of NELFA’s Erasmus+ project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families“. Read more here and see a video here (in Romanian). (photo: Florinela Iosip)

GENOVA, 15 June 2019: NELFA Board member Giovanni Fantoni (Famiglie Arcobaleno) and his family took part in Liguria Pride 2019. This year’s edition was entitled “Genova better than this” and officially endorsed by NELFA. The Board decided to support as much Pride events as possible in the future, to make the European Network of rainbow families more visible to a public at large. (photo: Giovanni Fantoni)

MADRID, 10 June 2019: SPAIN: The organisation FELGTB just published the results of a nice competition, “Esta es mi familia“. 7-year-old Carles Pico won the drawing contest (category “rainbow family”). Some days ago, FELGTB also published a new brochure for school education concerning family diversity, entitled “Las Familias en las Aulas”. (picture: Carles Pico)

VATICAN, 10 June 2019: In a new document aimed at Catholic schools, the Church has rejected the idea that people should be free to choose their gender. It is entitled “Male and female he created them. For a path of dialogue on the issue of gender in education”. LGBTIQ* activits are very disappointed. They think that the document will encourage more hatred and bigotry. Read more here and see some reactions of people concerned. (photo: Vatican Media)

VIENNA, 06 June 2019: The Fundamental Rights Agency (FRA) just published its new Annual Report 2019. It states that many people risk being left behind, as growing intolerance and attacks on people’s fundamental rights continue to erode the considerable progress achieved to date. The Report talks about LGBTIQ* (family) rights from page 67 onwards. FRA encourages EU Member States to follow the recommendations of the Commission’s actions list. (photo: FRA)

SANKT GALLEN, 05 June 2019: In Switzerland, the debate on marriage equality is ongoing. The regional government of the Saint Gall Canton is in favour of the new law, but unfortunately without the possibility for lesbian couples to get access to medically assisted insemination. Swiss activists are disappointed and hope that other cantons will be more progressive. Read more (in German). (photo: Keystone)

PARIS, 28 May 2019: For the first time, a French court (cour d’appel de Paris) accepted a foreign birth certificate (Ontario/Canada) stating two dads. Their twins, born through surrogacy in 2014, obtain French nationality automatically. Read more here (in French). The decision is an important step forward and in line with a recent EHCR opinion (European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg). (photo: Shutterstock)

BRUSSELS, 28 May 2019: The EU elections are over and the results may leave mixed feelings. But, nonetheless, NELFA will continue its efforts to improve the rights of rainbow families. And the new Members of the EU Parliament should be our partners. Read NELFA’s press release and have a look at our webpage about the EU elections. (graphic: NELFA).


DUBLIN, 23 May 2019: Ireland’s President has signed the Civil Registration Bill 2019 into law meaning some female same-sex couples can now have both parents named on their child’s birth certificate. Parents who had a child via an Irish donor were previously only able to have the mother’s name mentioned. Read more here. NELFA will present the current legal situation in Europe at an event in Dublin on 18th of June. (photo: Dara Mac Dónaill, 2015)

COPENHAGEN, 20-24 May 2019: “Consulting and development of teams and groups” in Copenhagen is NELFA’s last training in the current Erasmus+ project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families” which will be finalised in June. Two NELFA participants from Bulgaria (i.e. Board member Veneta Limberova) are educated by the consultancy In Dialogue. Once again a great occasion to learn and to meet other European activists! (photo: Veneta Limberova)

BRUSSELS, 20 May 2019: The Committee of the Regions invited NELFA to present the current status of rainbow families in Europe. The #IDAHOBIT2019 event “Myths and truths about LGBTI parenting” was another good opportunity to share stories about LGBTIQ* parents and their kids. Find here the corresponding NELFA presentation. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

BERLIN, 17 May 2019: The 2019 Trans Rights Europe & Central Asia Map highlights the forced sterilisation of transgender persons (16 countries) and the requirement for a mental health diagnosis in gender recognition procedures (36 countries). Only four countries recognise the gender identity of a trans parent on their child’s birth certificate. (graphic: TGEU)

BRUSSELS, 17 May 2019: NELFA celebrates the International Day Against Homo-, Bi- and Transphobia (#IDAHOBIT2019). At a breakfast event at the European Commission (DG Justice), Vice President Björn Sieverding had the possibility to speak about rainbow families in Europe and their current legal problems. Then, Commission staff members and Director-General Tiina Astola just showed their support through a common picture. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

BRUSSELS, 15 May 2019: NELFA celebrates the International Day of Families (United Nations)! It provides an opportunity to promote awareness of issues relating to families. NELFA tries to make clear on this occasion that the well-being of our children depends – to a high extend – on the equal treatment through adequate laws and regulations. Read the full press release here and find a nice video of Pride Barcelona organisers and rainbow families from FLG here. (graphic: NELFA)

OSLO, 13 May 2019: ILGA-Europe just unveiled its new Rainbow Europe 2019 survey. It is the most comprehensive overview concerning the situation of LGBTIQ* people in Europe. It reveals not only a standstill in a significant number of countries but a visible backslide on laws and policies safeguarding equality and human rights. Read ILGA’s press release. (graphic: ILGA)

BERLIN, 13-17 May 2019: The next Erasmus+ training takes place in Berlin – with active NELFA volunteers from Estonia and Serbia! The event of our partner organisation In Dialogue is entitled “Strength-based coaching and guidance”. The training is part of NELFA’s current project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families“. (photo: Aili Kala)

ZAGREB, 10-12 May 2019: Dugine obitelji‘s Rainbow Families Conference Our kids are ok” was a full success! Three days of intensive discussions about the future in the Balkans for LGBTIQ* parents and their children, recent research findings and a cosy #IFED2019 afternoon withs adults and kids – just amazing and inspiring! A range of photos will appear soon on our website. And find here the current NELFA presentation (photo: Daniel Martinovic)

TRENTO, 09 May 2019: Couples who seek surrogacy abroad won’t be able to register themselves as co-parents to their children in Italy. This is the latest ruling of the country’s highest court. The partner of the biological father will have to apply for a stepchild adoption, particularly permitted. The case could now be taken to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg. Read more here. (photo: Tiziana Fab, AFP)

BARCELONA, 09 May 2019: NELFA President Eleni Maravelia took part in the conference “LGBTIQ Families. From legal recognition to actual rights”, organised by “Doing Rights”. It was another opportunity to raise awareness about the current situation of rainbow families accross Europe. NELFA contributed with a corresponding presentation. (photo: FLG)

BUDAPEST, 07 May 2019: Hungary is back! The former Foundation for Rainbow Families had ceased to function some years ago, but there are new activities in the country. Háttér Society offers now a legal advice service for rainbow families (to-be) and works on reasearch. Most recently, they issued a common report on LGBTIQ* parents and their children, together with ILGA-Europe. Hátter Society is from now new full member of NELFA! (photo: Háttér Society via Facebook)

VIENNA, 07 May 2019: The Administrative Court just strengthened the rights of rainbow families, in particular their familial ties. The case was about a married (mexican-austrian) lesbian couple and their twins who are living in Mexico. The authorities in Austria denied their right to get passports for the children. At the end, the Court decided in favour of the family. The common birth certificate must be transcribed in Austria. Read more here (photo: FAmOS)

BARCELONA, 07 May 2019: NELFA took part in the Annual General Meeting of COFACE Families Europe. One aim was to talk about future tasks and possible cooperations. NELFA President Eleni Maravelia met up i.e. with COFACE Director Liz Gosme who will participate in the upcoming research presentation in Brussels, co-organised by NELFA. Our network will also be present at a children’s rights conference of COFACE in Helsinki this year. (photo: Eleni Maravelia)

GENEVA, 05 May 2019: Rainbow Families and allies all over the world celebrated #IFED2019! This year’s motto of the International Family Equality Day was “Families: United we stand!”. For the IFED Network in Geneva, it was a source of strength and motivation. See the full press release here. NELFA will celebrate IFED during the Rainbow Families Conference in Zagreb next weekend from 10-12 May 2019. (collage: IFED Network)

BRUSSELS, 03 May 2019: NELFA, ILGA-Europe and COFACE Families Europe are celebrating #IFED2019! The International Family Equality Day will be held on Sunday all around the world. This year’s motto is “Families: United we stand!”. NELFA will celebrate IFED also during the Rainbow Families Conference in Zagreb next weekend from 10-12 May 2019. (collage: Björn Sieverding)

VALETTA, 03 May 2019: NELFA welcomes wholeheartedly its 36th member organisation! It is MGRM, the Malta LGBTIQ Rights Movement. Together with NELFA’s full member The Malta Foundation for the Wellbeing of Society they launched in September 2018 a new Rainbow Families Network with more than 70 people connected. (photo: MGRM via Facebook)

KARLSRUHE, 24 April 2019: The Federal Court (Bundesgerichtshof) just decided that a surrogate is the legal mother – even if the intended mother gave her ovum and is therefore genetically linked to the child. In the corresponding case, a heterosexual couple had a surrogacy arrangement in Ukraine, the parent-child connection was not approved by a court before the birth. Read more about the ruling here (in German). (photo: Bundesgerichtshof)

VALETTA, 23 April 2019: NELFA welcomes a new full member organisation! The Malta Foundation for the Wellbeing of Society [MFWS] (led by the former President Marie-Louise Coleiro Preca) and the Malta LGBTIQ Rights Movement (MGRM) have launched a special Rainbow Families Network during Pride in September 2018. See the current Facebook page of the Rainbow Support Service. (graphic: MFWS)

BRUSSELS, 17 April 2019: NELFA will be able to take part in new project! It is entitled “Rainbow shield: Enhancing the legal protection of LGBTI people in Bulgaria”. The leading organisation is Deystvie, partners are Bilitis (Rainbow Hub), Foundation GLAS, Asociatia Accept in Romania and NELFA. The specific objectives of the two-year project are to expand the scope of legal practitioners prepared to deal with LGBTI cases and enhance their expertise in doing so, to raise awareness among the community about possibilities for legal protection and to disseminate best practices. (graphic: Björn Sieverding)

FRANKFURT AM MAIN, 13 April 2019: LGBTIQ* lawyers from all over Europe came together to discuss recent legal developments. The exchange was organised by the LGBT Family Law Institute FLI, in particular by Diana Adams and Bill Singer. NELFA Board members Veneta Limberova (Deystvie) and Björn Sieverding (LSVD) presented the network’s aim to build up a common legal support group. Find here NELFA’s current info slides and a press release. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

POZNAN, 12-13 April 2019: NELFA’s member organisation Fundacja Tęczowe Rodziny (with Board member Joanna Śmiecińska had a wonderful rainbow families weekend in Poznań, including a seminar and a meeting of LGBTIQ* parents with their children! Other Board members contributed with video messages about their own stories. (photo: FTR via Facebook)

MADRID, 12 April 2019: NELFA’s member organisation Galehi just started a campaign for the general elections in Spain. Main aim: to respect the full diversity of families! In the picture: NELFA’s Board member Jesús Santos Homobono and his wonderful family. You will find more information about the campaign here. (photo: Galehi)

MUNICH, 11 April 2019: The Rainbow Family Centre in Munich just published a new information brochure (64 pages) for rainbow families and day care personnel (in German). You can order them here: (photo: Marion Lüttig, Stephanie Gerlach,  Regenbogenfamilienzentrum München)

BRUSSELS, 08 April 2019: The EP’s Intergroup on LGBTI Rights has started an intersting EU election campaign. It shows exactly how MEP voted during the last legislature for LGBTIQ* rights. Just follow the hashtag #lgbtivotes on Facebook to see the different topics. In the picture: The votes on freedom of movement for same-sex couples! (graphic: LGBTI Intergroup)

STRASBOURG, 10 April 2019: The EHCR (European Court of Human Rights) just issued an opinion that backs children born through surrogacy and their legal ties to the intended parents. LGBTIQ* activists hope that the statement will also help to justify an easier co-parent recognition for rainbow families. (photo: EHCR)

LINZ, 08-12 April 2019: “Clear leadership” was the title of the recent Erasmus+ training course in Austria ( Two NELFA participants from Croatia and Romania attended the event – in the framework of our project: “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families”. (photo: Daniel Martinovic)

BRUSSELS, 02 April 2019: Once again, the European Parliament’s Committee on Petitions discussed the case of our NELFA President Eleni Maravelia and her family (and another case of an Irish-Polish couple). It’s about discrimination against LGBTIQ* and denied EU free movement rights. Summary: strategic litigation will be the best way to go ahead! NELFA and its allies push this issue forward – for sure! We already give some advice. (photo: Eleni Maravelia last year in Brussels)

GENEVA, 02 April 2019: The IFED Network just published some new information about the upcoming International Family Equality Day 2019, which will be officially celebrated on 5th of May. The Network expects events in more than 50 countries all around the world. NELFA supports IFED since the beginning. The Board will celebrate #IFED2019 in Zagreb, Croatia. Read the new press release. (photo: IFED Network, taken during the ILGA-World conference in Wellington. In the picture: i.e. members of NELFA-organisations Sateenkariperheet ry in Finland and Dachverband Regenbogenfamilien in Switzerland)

BRUSSELS, 01 April 2019: NELFA has started its EU election campaign. It’s about the simple question: “What will you do for LGBTIQ* families?”. The campaign is addressed to all MEP candidates within the European Union. Rainbow families should know who will support them openly and actively during the next legislature from 2019 to 2024. Therefore, NELFA has elaborated a little questionnaire. The aim is to publish the results in May, shortly before the elections. More details on the webbpage mentioned above or in the press release. (graphic: NELFA)

ZAGREB, 29-31 March 2019: NELFA active volunteer Boris Vrdoljak and other members of Dugine obitelji (Rainbow Families Croatia) took part in the first Trans Inter March in Zagreb (occasion: Trans Day of Visibility). On behalf of Queer Sport Split and, Boris Vrdoljak also co-organised a panel discussion about trans, intersex and non-binary people in sports and a workshop entitled “How to create sport spaces safe and comfortable for everyone?”. Skills came from a NELFA Erasmus+ training course in Gouda earlier this year! (photo: Boris Vrdoljak)

VERONA, 30-31 March 2019: NELFA took part in a protest rally against the so-called “World Congress of Families”, an anti-LGBTIQ* event. Board member Giovanni Fantoni and many other activists from Famiglie Arcobaleno in Italy waved the flag for rainbow families in Europe, to demonstrate for diversity and equality. In total, there were at least around 30.000 people (source: police) who were in the streets to say NO against all hatred, sown by WCF. Find an article of our Board member Giuseppina La Delfa here (in Italian). (photo: Giovanni Fantoni, here together with LGBTIQ* East expert Rémy Bonny).

BRUSSELS, 28 March 2019: Our friends from ILGA-Europe just started a new blog concerning the important Coman case judgment at the European Court of Justice in Luxembourg (June 2018). You will find very useful information about your family’s freedom of movement and how to start a complaint whenever you face difficulties. More information in our section NELFA legal service! (photo: ILGA-Europe)

PRAGUE, 26 March 2019: The Parliament of the Czech Republic didn’t come to a decision on marriage equality. The Chamber of Deputies discussed the topic but finally postponed it. The bill must pass the lower house, then it will be submitted to the Senate. President Zeman has already stated that he wants to veto a same-sex marriage law. Nontheless, the initiative Jsme fér (We are fair) remains hopeful. Read here interesting articles – one and two. (graphic: Jsme fér)

GENOVA, 26 March 2019: NELFA Treasurer Giovanni Fantoni just bought a new flag for the Network. First use: a demonstration (and conference) against the so-called World Congress of Families, an anti-LGBTIQ* event which will take place in Verona (29-31 March 2019). NELFA supports the rally against all hatred and for more diversity, together with its national member Famiglie Arcobaleno. Read a corresponding press release, an article about the conference and your possibility to join the AllOut campaign. (photo: Giovanni Fantoni)

BRUSSELS, 21 March 2019: The Intergroup on LGBTI Rights in the European Parliament (Juliette Sanchez-Lambert) organised a lunch seminar for around 20 EU staff members about the Coman case, its implications and the future for the freedom of movement of rainbow families. NELFA Vice President Björn Sieverding gave a general introduction, individual NELFA member Alina Tryfonidou (University of Reading/UK) talked about her legal analysis and researcher José M. Villaverde from Spain about private international law. (photo: Juliana Teoh)

BRUSSELS, 17 March 2019: The NELFA Board decided to support the current AllOut campaign against the World Congress of Families (WCF) which will be held from 29-31 March in Verona. WCF is one of the most powerful anti-choice and anti-LGBTIQ* groups, it stands clearly against the rights of rainbow families. The campaign is entitled: “Stop sponsoring hate”. And you can also give a donation. (graphic: AllOut)

BARCELONA, 16 March 2019: NELFA’s full member FLG just organised its 4th Annual Educational Workshop – a day of workshops regarding Gender, Activism by Rainbow Families and Education. NELFA’s new President Eleni Maravelia took part in the event. More information here. (photo: Eleni Maravelia)

BRUSSELS, 15 March 2019: NELFA had the possibility to meet staff members of the EU Commission to talk about free movement rights for rainbow families and how to push this issue forward. Next goal will be to set up a list of complaints, in cooperation with ILGA-Europe. Read the corresponding NELFA presentation at the meeting here. (photo: Juliana Teoh [in the picture NELFA Board member Björn Sieverding and Wester Meijdam of DG Justice])

BERLIN, 13 March 2019: Rainbow family rights on the move! The country is on its way to an automatic co-parent recognition for married or partnered lesbian couples. Federal Minister of Justice, Katarina Barley (SPD), just presented a discussion draft (62 pages). In addition, couples in a civil partnership should get joint adoption rights! Read more here (photo: Achim Melde)

AMSTERDAM, 13 March 2019: Turbulent weeks in the Netherlands! In the past years, lesbian couples and single women received funding for their fertility treatment. Some weeks ago, the competent Minister Bruno Bruins (VVD) just changed his mind and this caused a lot of indignation (i.e. with NELFA’s full member Meer Dan Gewenst). In the meantime, more than 90.000 people signed a petition against the decision… and today: the Minister confirmed that the funding will remain at least for this year. In summer, there should be a broader discussion about ART in general. Read more here (in Dutch). (photo: taken during a protest rally on 9th of March in Amsterdam by Rik Spier and Nico Arkesteijn)

BUCHAREST, 12 March 2019: The Senate voted against civil partnerships for same-sex couples. Next week, the Chamber of Deputies must decide – but still: the project has failed for the time being. The efforts of NELFA’s supporting member Asociatia Accept are ongoing and we support them wholeheartedly. Read more here (in Romanian). (photo: Member of the Senate, Serban Nicolae (PSD), Inquam Photos, Octav Ganea)

COPENHAGEN, 11-15 March 2019: NELFA’s next Erasmus+ experience has just started in Denmark. Three active volunteers from France and Bulgaria take part in the training course “Strategic management”, organised by our partner Project: “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families“. (photo: Doan Trung Luu)

HELSINKI, 09 March 2019: NELFA (Board) members and active volunteers from all over Europe attended the Annual General Meeting (AGM) of the Network, hosted by our full member organisation Sateenkaariperheet ry. NELFA has now a new Board. Read the press release and see some further pictures here. (Photo: Giovanni Fantoni)

HELSINKI, 08 March 2019: NELFA’s Finnish member Sateenkaariperheet ry organised a seminar, entitled “The Rights of the Child in LGBTIQ* Advocacy”. Board members and experts from both organisations presented very interesting insights. See here the speeches one, two, three, four, five and six. The seminar was also part of the job-shadowing for five participants (Poland, Serbia, Romania and Bulgaria) of NELFA’s current Erasmus+ project. (photo: Joanna Śmiecińska)

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PRAGUE, 27 February 2019: The major of the Czech Republic’s capital Zdeněk Boletus signed a supporting document for the ongoing marriage equality campaign. The organisation

LONDON, 26 February 2019: From September 2020 onwards, all primary schools in England will be required to teach about different families, which can include LGBTIQ* families. And at secondary level, all schools will be required to teach about sexual orientation and gender identity. Read the corresponding Stonewall article. (photo: Stonewall UK, Emli Bendixen)

BRUSSELS, 21 February 2019: The EP’s Intergroup on LGBTI rights published a press release concerning a recent resolution. The Parliament calls on the EU Commission to secure the future of its List of Actions, a strategy document on LGBTI rights presented in 2015 and due to expire this year. The Parliament addresses a series of requests to the Commission, i.e. to take concrete measures to secure freedom of movement for Rainbow Families (and follow-up the implementation of the Coman case). (graphic: EU Commission)

STRASBOURG, 14 February 2019: ILGA-Europe has started a new campaign concerning the EU elections in May 2019, supported by NELFA. The campaign asks MEP candidates to sign the ComeOut pledge publicly, committing them to: 1) Strengthening protection in EU law and policy, 2) Ensuring an enabling environment for LGBTI human rights defenders, 3) Ensuring EU leadership on LGBTI rights, 4) Harnessing the power of their position, 5) Being an ally to under-represented voices. For more information and to get involved, follow the hashtag #ComeOut4EU and visit the new website, (photo: ILGA-Europe)

STRASBOURG, 14 February 2019: For the very first time, the European Parliament adopted a resolution on intersex rights! It sets a clear standard within the European Union for the protection of intersex people’s bodily integrity and human rights. The resolution complements the ground-breaking 2017 intersex resolution ‘Promoting the human rights of and eliminating discrimination against intersex people’ adopted by the Parliamentary Assembly of the Council of Europe. (photo: ILGA-Europe).

BERN, 14 February 2019: The legal committee of the National Council is in favour of a new bill in Switzerland to introduce marriage equality, also with joint adoption rights. Unfortunately, the same committee voted against the possibility for lesbian couples to get access to medically assisted procreation (sperm donation). NELFA’s member Dachverband Regenbogenfamilien and other activits organised a demonstration with 50-100 participants in Bern. Read more here (in German). (photo: Keystone Anthony Anex)

GOUDA, 11-15 February 2019: The next NELFA Erasmus+ experience took place in the Netherlands. Our participant from Croatia (Dugine obitelji) joined the training course “Inspiring facilitation, teaching and training” of our partner organisation In Dialogue. He was accompanied by other activists from Metro/UK and Famiglie Arcobaleno in Italy. (photo: Boris Vrdoljak)

PARIS, 01-02 February 2019: NELFA’s full member apgl (with President Dominique Boren) just organised a colloquium to discuss medically assisted procreation in France and the first six years of marriage equality. Another wonderful review offers the documentary “Mon Enfant, ma Bataille” (My Child, my Struggle). It covers 35 years of the fight for the rights of LGBTIQ* parents and their families in France. (graphic: apgl)

BRUSSELS, 31 January – 02 February 2019: NELFA Vice-President Giuseppina La Delfa (Famiglie Arcobaleno, Italy) took part in a workshop of ILGA-Europe. In total, 32 participants from 16 countries came together to explore how to build new narratives in response to the anti-gender forces. (photo: ILGA-Europe via Twitter)

VIENNA, 24 January 2019: There are worrying news from Austria. The newspaper “Der Standard” just published an article concerning same-sex marriages of binational couples. Obviously, the Ministry of the Interior wants to avoid a recognition if one of the partners comes from a country without marriage equality. Read more here (in German). (photo: APA/Herbert Neubauer)

BRUSSELS, 23 January 2019: NELFA just published its first scientific research! It is a legal analysis of the ‘Coman case‘ before the European Court of Justice, which had ended with a landmark ruling in June 2018: The term “spouse” in the EU Directive 20014/38 (freedom of movement) includes married same-sex couples. The author is Professor Alina Tryfonidou (University of Reading, UK) who joined NELFA as supporting individual member. See the whole document here and the press release. (photo: Alina Tryfonidou)

BUCHAREST, 18 January 2019: NELFA welcomes wholeheartedly its new supporting member, Asociatia Accept in Romania! It is a non-governmental organisation that advocates LGBTIQ* rights since 1996. In recent times, Accept accompanied the court case of Adrian Coman and Clai Hamilton with the landmark ruling in summer 2018 at the EJC and campaigned successfully against the referendum concerning the term “family” in the Romanian constitution. (photo: Asociatia Accept)

BRUSSELS, 17 January 2019: NELFA just started a closer relationship with the EU Commission to advance the rights of rainbow families! President Dominique Boren and Secretary Björn Sieverding met up with Monika Ladmanová (Adviser of Commissioner Jourová – Justice, Consumers and Gender Equality) and issued the very first scientific publication of NELFA. It is a report on the Coman case, written by Alina Tryfonidou. Furthermore, we presented an updated list of difficult freedom of movement cases. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

COPENHAGEN, 14-18 January 2019: NELFA’s first Erasmus+ experience in the new year took place in Denmark. It was again a training course of our partner organisation In Dialogue, entitled “Monitoring and evaluation”. Our participant from Serbia (Grupa Izadji, ERA) took this picture during a work session. The “mobility” was already the fifth one in NELFA’s current project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families”. You find more information about our capacity building here. (photo: Isidora Isakov)

VILNIUS, 11 January 2019: It’s a landmark ruling in Lithuania! The Constitutional Court of the Republic held a public hearing on the case determining whether Constitutional provisions regarding freedom of movement of family members apply for same-sex couples. In its judgement, the Court stressed that refusal to issue a temporary residence permit to stay in Lithuania to a spouse or partner cannot be based solely on the foreigner’s gender identity and/or sexual orientation. Read more. (photo: LGL)

DUBLIN, 11 January 2019: NELFA is delighted by the recent development in Ireland. Same-sex female couples will be able to register both their names on a child’s birth certificate to affirm their parental rights under a new Bill being introduced by the Government. The preparation of the Bill 2019 had been approved and will be probably presented in spring. Read more here (photo: Irish Times)

BRUSSELS, 10 January 2019: Rainbow families still face discrimination, for example in cross-border situations. MEP Sophie in’t Veld (ALDE) asked the Commission in November 2018 what steps citizens can take if the authorities of a Member State refuse to implement the ruling of the “Coman case”? See here the recent answer of the Commission (in English). (photo: EU Commissioner Vera Jourová, source:

WARSAW, 10 January 2019: Jakub and Dawid, a wellknown gay couple in their home country, just lost their court case. Their marriage, conducted in Portugal, won’t be recognised in Poland. This means: the very positive jugdement before the EU Court of Justice (Coman case) last summer is not the end of our road! NELFA will work tirelessly for more equality!! See the video of the court hearing (in Polish). (photo: Jakub i Dawid on Facebook)

VIENNA, 01 January 2019: Austria celebrates marriage equality! The first regular same-sex couple got married at the beginning of the new year, only five minutes after midnight in Velden/Wörthersee. Read more here (in German). (photo: Paier/Kopaunik via

NELFA wishes a Happy New Year!!! We made some challenging experiences in 2018, but we had also a lot of wonderful moments! The NELFA Board works steadily to improve the rights of rainbow families in Europe - for more equality, recognition, protection and acceptance of LGBTIQ* parents (to-be) and their children. See a little summary of our year (in English):

Gepostet von NELFA am Freitag, 28. Dezember 2018

BRUSSELS, 01 January 2019: NELFA wishes a Happy New Year!!! We made some challenging experiences in 2018, but we had also a lot of wonderful moments! The NELFA Board works steadily to improve the rights of rainbow families in Europe – for more equality, recognition, protection and acceptance of LGBTIQ* parents (to-be) and their children. See a little summary of our year (in English).

BRUSSELS, 19 December 2018: The NELFA Board wishes you Merry Christmas! Enjoy the time with your (rainbow) families and friends. And, please, stay tuned! NELFA and its member organisations plan some nice events for you in 2019! Very soon, we will confirm the date for our next NELFA Conference in Zagreb (probably 10-11 May 2019) and our Spanish member FLG invites rainbow families to take part in Barcelona Pride (motto: “We are families everywhere”) from 28-29 June 2019…

BERLIN, 19 December 2018: A trans man just filed a complaint with the European Court of Human Rights. So far, it’s impossible for him to be recognised adequately in the birth certificate of his child. There, he remains as mother. The Constitutional Court rejected the corresponding case in June as unfounded. Read more here (in German). (photo: Pixabay)

BRUSSELS/MONTRÉAL, 15 December 2018: Reseacher Roberta Messina from (Brussels University ULB) has been awarded at a conference in Canada because of her study concerning same-sex adoptive families. NELFA’s member organisations Galehi (Spain), Homoparentalités (Belgium) and apgl (France) contributed to the study. Congratulations, Roberta!! Read more of her findings here (photo: Roberta Messina).

PRAGUE, 14 December 2018: Safe the date! The next Annual Conference of ILGA-Europe, the biggest LGBTIQ* meeting in the region, will take place in Prague from 23-26 October 2019. It will be organised in close cooperation with two local host organisations: Proud and Prague Pride. Read more here (logo: ILGA-Europe)

BERLIN, 13 December 2018The German Parliament decided on the implementation of a third gender “diverse”. Unfortunately, people concerned can’t do it via self-determination, psychological reports are still mandatory. Read a press release of NELFA’s member organisation LSVD and another statement of OII Europe. (photo:

MADRID, 11 December 2018: NELFA Board member Jesús Santos Homobono (Galehi), his husband David and their son Gabriel were interviewed and filmed by Radio Gaga. It’s one of these clear and impressive proofs that children in rainbow families are fine and live a “normal” life. See more here. (photo: Jesús Santos Homobono).

SOFIA, 10 December 2018: NELFA’s full member organisation Desytvie in Bulgaria has received a Human Rights Award for its work. They support for example a French-Australian couple, Cristina and Mariama, who still fight for their right to be recognised as married couple in Bulgaria. Congratulations, Deystvie! (photo: Cristina Palma)

ZAGREB, 06-09 December 2018: NELFA’s full member Dugine obitelji has started another initiative for a full recognition of rainbow families. NELFA President Dominique Boren and Secretary Björn Sieverding will take part in several meetings to raise awareness of current debates in France and Germany, the successful roads to marriage equality and the well-being of children with LGBTIQ* parents. This may help to convince politicians in Croatia to allow foster care for same-sex couples.

TALLINN, 28 November 2018: NELFA welcomes wholeheartedly its first official ally in the Baltics! From now, Eesti LGBT Ühing is a new supporting member of NELFA. The Estonian LGBT Association has been consulting and bringing together rainbow families for years and would like to do that more effectively. (photo: Eesti LGBT Ühing)

GENOVA, 27 November 2018: The mayor of Genova don’t want to accept the co-parent recognition of a lesbian mother and appealed against a corresponding court decision. Rainbow families (including NELFA Board member Giovanni Fantoni from Famiglie Arcobaleno) showed their strong protest during a town council meeting. (photo: Giovanni Fantoni)

BARCELONA, 26-30 November 2018: NELFA’s next Erasmus+ training has just begun, entitled “Inspiring facilitation, teaching and training for LGBT”. It is once again organised by our partner In Dialogue, this time in Barcelona! Our participants from Albania (OMSA) and Serbia (ERA) have an inspiring week in the rooms of NELFA’s member FLG. (photo: Arber Kodra)

PARIS, 22 November 2018: NELFA-President Dominique Boren (Co-chair of our French member apgl) met up with President Emmanuel Macron in Elysee Palace! The aim was to discuss (with 30 NGO’s) an action plan against LGBTIQ*phobia and medically assisted procreation for lesbian couples and single women. Macron confirmed to introduce a bill next year, but without a clear road map. (photo: Dominique Boren, together with apgl Co-chair Marie-Claude Picardat)

ZAGREB, 20 November 2018: NELFA’s full member “Dugine obitelji” called on members of the Croatian parliament to amend the final foster care bill as to enable same-sex couples to be eligible to provide LGBTIQ* foster parenting to children without adequate parental care. Read more. (photo: NELFA Board member Daniel Martinovic, in a TV talk concerning foster care)

COPENHAGEN, 19-23 November 2018: The second training of NELFA’s current Erasmus+ project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families” took place in Denmark’s capital city. Our participant from Russia (LGBT Network) learned a lot about “Conflict management”. The course was organised by our project partner “In Dialogue“. (photo: Regina Dzugkoeva)

BRUSSELS, 19 November 2018: NELFA had the possibility to speak about rainbow families in problematic cross-border situations – before the European Parliament’s Committee on Legal Affairs in Brussels. The aim of Board member Björn Sieverding was to urge the institutions to ensure mutual recognition of civil documents like marriage or birth certificates. You will find a video of the hearing here, and a longer version of the presentation. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

SAN MARINO, 16 November 2018: The Republic has just passed a law allowing civil unions for same-sex couples. The Great and General Council voted 40 v. 4 in favor of the regulation. It states: “The civil union is the contract by which a family-like community is governed by two adult individuals of the same sex or different sex in order to organise their life in common”. Read more here. (photo: Luis Cortes Martinez, Unsplash)

AMSTERDAM, 13 November 2018: At least two IVF clinics in the Netherlands are to start offering surrogacy services to gay couples next year (source: De Monitor). One in Leiderdorp will help fertilising a surrogate mother’s own eggs while a second, in Elsendorp, will allow couples to provide an egg from a sister or other family member for a better genetic match. For NELFA’s Dutch member Meer Dan Gewenst this is a “major step forward”. (photo:

BARCELONA, 10 November 2018: NELFA’s full member FLG just organised its cosy autumn meeting. Approximately 200 LGBTIQ* parents and their children met up in the near of Barcelona. (photo: Eleni Maravelia)

MOSCOW, 09 November 2018: LGBTIQ* activists were attacked during their preparation for the 5th annual “LGBTQIAPP+ Family Conference“. The event was already cancelled because the venue managers had received threads. At a nearby shop the activists were sprayed with an acid substance. Two people were injured and had to be treated in hospital. At first, NELFA’s member, the Russian LGBT Network, reported on the attack. Read here another media article. (photo:

SOFIA, 08 November 2018: NELFA’s full member Deystvie hosted an international conference, entitled “Love moves towards equality”. The aim was to raise awareness of the difficulties same-sex couples face in Bulgaria and elsewhere, especially with regard to freedom of movement within the EU. Find here some further details. (photo: Veneta Limberova)

SOFIA, 05-09 November 2018: NELFA’s full member organisation Deystvie and others just started a new campaign with the All Out Fund. The petition asks the EU institutions to protect the rights of same-sex couples and rainbow families. Background is the case of Cristina and Mariama, who married in France. But Bulgarian authorities denied Cristina the right to stay.

COPENHAGEN, 05-09 November 2018: NELFA’s current Erasmus+ project “Joining forces for the well-being of rainbow families” is now in the implementation period! The first training course of our partner In Dialogue took place in Denmark’s capital. Or Polish participant learned more about “Clear leadership“. (photo: Joanna Smiecinska)

BRUSSELS, 05 November 2018: MEP Sophie in’t Veld (D66, ALDE) submitted a written question to the European Commission about the implementation of the Coman case. They refer to information (quote “several signals”) that Member States are not fully implementing this judgement. Read more here (in English) and the corresponding question (in Dutch).

BUCHAREST, 31 October 2018: A group of 43 Members of Parliament signed a new bill to legalise civil partnerships in Romania. The draft is supported by several civil society organisations, i.e. Accept Romania. The bill aims at improving the protection of same-sex couples, for example with redard to inheritage, insurance and other related rights and obligations for their family life. Read more here (in Romanian).

PRAGUE, 31 October 2018: The Czech Republic seems to be ready for marriage equality – as first country in Eastern Europe. Today, a first debate on a corresponding law proposal was expected, but unfortunately other issues got between. The initiative Jsme fér reported that the next debate will be on 14th of November. The European Parliament’s Intergroup on LGBTI Rights supports the proposal wholeheartedly. See more here. (photo: Jsme fér)

KARLSRUHE, 30 October 2018: NELFA urges the legislator in Germany to change the parentage law as soon as possible. Background is the recent decision of the Federal Court against a lesbian couple. The judges rejected the automatic co-recognition of the non-biological mother and saw no discrimination. Read ore here (in German). (photo: miapowterr/pixabay)

RIGA, 29 October 2018: The Office of the Ombudsman of Latvia issued an opinion calling the Ministry of Justice and the Saeima (parliament) to introduce a framework for the recognition and protection of same-sex families and to review the create a common understanding of the concept and protection of the family in regulatory frameworks. For the LGBTIQ* organisation Mozaika it is a “game-changer”. Read more here. (photo: Ombudsman Latvia)

BRUSSELS, 24-27 October 2018: NELFA attended ILGA-Europe’s Annual Conference. Board members Eleni Maravelia (FLG), Dominique Boren (apgl), Daniel Martinovic (Dugine obitelji) and Björn Sieverding (LSVD, Homoparentalités) met up with other activists to discuss rainbow family issues and possible cooperations in the future. NELFA presented the current situation of LGBTQ* parents and their children in a workshop concerning the “Coman case“. You can find a first database on other freedom of movement cases here. (photo: Björn Sieverding)

VIENNA, 24 October 2018: The Constitutional Court has ruled once again in favour of same-sex couples with children. They must be treated equally to different-sex couples, even after their separation. In the present case it was about a lesbian mother who wanted to adopt the couple’s child. Read more here (in German). (photo: VfGH/Achim Bieniek)

SAN VINCENZO, 19-21 October 2018: One of the biggest NELFA member organisations, Famiglie Arcobaleno, just elected a new Executive Board and had a wonderful Annual Meeting in San Vincenzo, Livorno, with hundreds of LGBTIQ* parents and their children! NELFA Board members Giovanni Fantoni and Esteban Jiménez attended the celebration with their families. Love against all recent hatred!!!! Read more here (in Italian). (photo: Famiglie Arcobaleno)

SARAJEVO, 19 October 2018: The Federation of Bosnia and Herzegovina (FBiH) entity government adopted the request for the legalisation of same-sex marriages! A working group will analyse the regulations which would allow couples concerned to realise their rights stemming from the European Human Rights Convention and propose regulations which need to be adopted on the territory of the FBiH. LGBTIQ* activits welcomed this move. Read more (photo: Boris Kovacev).

WARSAW, 12/18 October 2018: For the first time, a lesbian couple will be able to register their child jointly in Poland. Their son was born in London in 2014. The Polish mother and her female partner tried to register him for a Polish birth certificate, but local administrators rejected the request. Surprisingly, the Supreme Adminstration Court now decided in favour of the rainbow family. Lawyer Anna Mazurczak explains the details of the case here in English. (photo: AP)

VIENNA, 12 October 2018: After a long period of twisting and turning, the right-wing government (ÖVP/FPÖ) accepts the decision of the Constitutional Court from December 2017. Marriage equality will come into effect from 2019 (and civil unions will be possible for both same-sex and different-sex couples). The first lesbian couple (and their son) already celebrated their wedding today. Read more here. (photo: Britta Pedersen, dpa)

VALLADOLID, 11 October 2018: NELFA welcomes a new full member organisation – Fundación Triángulo in Spain! The LGBT organisation was founded in 1996. It has a growing area of families (since 2011) with around 120 members. Fundación Triángulo Familias has organised groups in several regions of Spain, including, Castilla y León, Castilla La Mancha, Madrid, Andalucía and Extremadura. Main aim is to participate in advancing the rights of rainbow families, to exchange knowledge and experiences with other LGBTIQ* families associations. (photo: Christianos Gays, November 2015)

STRASBOURG, 10 October 2018: NELFA is delighted by the recent decision in the Council of Europe! The Parliamentary Assembly (PACE) adopted a resolution concerning rainbow families without any amendment. PACE has called for the elimination of all unjustified differences in treatment in the field of private and family life based on grounds of sexual orientation. The Assembly urged states to “work vigorously” to combat prejudice and called for “acceptance and respect” for rainbow families in our societies. The resolution bases on a report written by Jonas Gunnarsson (Sweden, SOC). NELFA contributed to the document on several occasions. (photo: Maria von Känel, Facebook)

GENEVA, 09 October 2018: The IFED Network launched the new Annual Report of the International Family Equality Day 2018. The 7th IFED was held last may in 48 countries and 111 cities. The motto was “Children’s Rights Matter” and drew attention to the dire fact that in most parts of the world, children with LGBTIQ* parents do not enjoy the same rights as children in traditional families. You can support the IFED Annual Report crowdfunding project! (photo: IFED Network).

BUCHAREST/BRUSSELS, 07 October 2018: The boycott of the recent referendum in Romania was successful. The aim was to redefine the term “family” as union between “man and woman” only and to replace the current neutral version “between spouses”. At the end, the plebiscite (which costs around $40 million) failed on low vote turnout. Now, NELFA demands new legislative efforts to recognise rainbow families in Romania. Read the full press release here.

SKOPJE, 03-06 October 2018: NELFA’s new full member ERA (LGBTI Equal Rights Association for the Western Balkans and Turkey) held its Annual Conference (in FYR Macedonia). It is the biggest LGBTIQ* event in the region since 2015. The conference brought together more than 200 participants. NELFA Board member Daniel Martinovic talked about rainbow families in Croatia and beyond. Read more here (in English). (photo: ERA)

STRASBOURG, 02 October 2018: The Czech Republic violates the human rights of transgender people [forced sterilisation] as guaranteed by the European Social Charter, found a decision that was made public today. The case had been brought jointly by TGEU and ILGA-Europe in cooperation with local activists using the collective complaint mechanism. It is the first transgender discrimination case decided under that procedure. Read TGEU’s press statement here. (photo: CoE)

BRUSSELS/BUCHAREST, 02 October 2018: NELFA supports the boycott of the upcoming referendum in Romania (6-7 October) to redefine family as “union between man and woman” only. Obviously: LOVE makes a family, not a restricted Constitution! ILGA-Europe’s Executive Director Evelyne Paradis calls the referendum “dangerous”. Read more here. And find some more info in this background document or in NELFA’s corresponding press release.

BERN, 01 October 2018: NELFA is happy about the recent development in Switzerland! The National Council has made homophobia and transphobia as illegal as racism in a new vote to change the penal code. Anyone found guilty could receive a jail sentence for up to three years! Read more. (in the photo: National councillor Mathias Reynard who spearheaded the campaign to change the law, Attitude Magazine)


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